Get a Yes on Your Kitchen Remodel Plan
Let’s be honest—talking to your partner about how to plan a kitchen remodel can be tricky, especially when money’s involved. Do you actually need a remodel, or is it just a wish list item? And is it really worth it?
A remodel isn’t just about home value—it’s about your everyday life. It’s about whether cooking dinner feels like a joy or a total drag. Whether you’ve got room to host or if everyone ends up bumping elbows.
This post isn’t here to talk you into anything. It’s here to help you think it through and talk it out in a way that’s low-pressure and actually helpful.
Start Here: Figure Out If You Need the Remodel
A Quick (and Totally Honest) Checklist
📝 Said yes to any of that? Then it’s time. Let’s get you ready to bring it up the right way.
Preparing for the conversation
Step 1: Prove the Kitchen Just Isn’t Cutting It
Before you even bring up the idea of remodeling, it helps to have a little proof that the kitchen really is the problem—not just a whim.
The good news? You probably already have it. Start by doing a walk-through of your kitchen. What’s bugging you?
- Is the layout awkward?
- Are the cabinets falling apart?
- Is it a pain to cook, clean, or find anything in your kitchen?
Snap a few pics while you’re at it. This isn’t just for your own clarity—it’ll help your partner see what you’re seeing, too.
Kitchen Planner Insight: 86% of homeowners feel their kitchen layout doesn’t work. And 83% say their cabinets are damaged. If your Tallahassee kitchen is like this, it might be time to act.
Want An Easy Way To Get Started?
Take our Kitchen Planning Quiz
This 5 min quiz will help you figure out what work needs to be done, the type of contractor you need and the potential ROI of the project.
Step 2: Call Out What’s Driving You Both Nuts
Okay, now it’s time to tap into the everyday stuff that’s slowly driving you bananas. Because if you’re annoyed by it, chances are your partner is too.
- Is the kitchen cluttered no matter how hard you try to organize it?
- Are you constantly bumping into each other while trying to cook?
- Do you avoid hosting because the space just doesn’t work?
Think about what you’ve heard your partner complain about. That junk drawer that won’t open, the corner cabinet that’s useless, or the lack of outlets for your coffee setup—all fair game.
Kitchen Planner Insight: 78% of homeowners say they’d entertain more often if their kitchen actually worked for them. A few smart changes could turn that chaos into calm (and maybe even make cooking together fun again).
Think about how you use your space
Drag the slider to see this layout transformation!
This Betton Woods homeowner thought about how they actually use the kitchen (hint: that’s called function first). It’s where everyone gathers—so opening it up and adding an island just made sense.
Step 3: Make the Money Make Sense
Alright, you’ve shown the problems and pointed out what’s driving you both a little nuts—now it’s time to bring in the numbers.
Planning a kitchen remodel can bring up a lot of money questions—but it doesn’t have to be overwhelming.
This isn’t just about getting a shiny new kitchen. It’s about putting money into something that gives back. Think about it like this:
- Does remodeling bump up your home’s value? (Yep. It usually does.)
- Are other homes nearby already updated? (If so, yours might be falling behind.)
- Will you stick around long enough to actually enjoy the new space? (Big yes? Then it’s worth it.)
Want quick numbers? Use our free cost calculator to get a ballpark budget—fast and easy, no guesswork.
Kitchen Planner Insight: In Tallahassee, remodeled kitchens bring a 55–60% ROI. That’s better than the national average, according to JLC’s 2024 Cost vs. Value Report. So no, it’s not just a splurge—it’s a smart move if you do it right.
📝 Now that you’ve done the prep, let’s move on to actually starting the conversation. You’ve got your talking points—now let’s put them to work.
Turning Prep Into a Real Conversation
Start with the Real-Life Stuff
Forget numbers for now. Go back to that list you made during your prep—the things that drive you both nuts on the daily.
Start with those. Say something like, “This kitchen just isn’t working for us—want to talk about ways we could fix it?” That feels a lot better than, “Let’s spend fifty grand.”
Use the notes you took, the photos you snapped, or the pain points you jotted down. Focus on the daily wins—more storage, better flow—not the big-ticket stuff right away.
Paint the Picture
Remember all those kitchen photos you pinned and saved during prep? Pull them up. A visual goes a long way when you’re trying to show what’s possible. (We have a few inspiration pins you can check out here.)
You can also reference the Kitchen Planner results you’ve already got—it’s like a custom cheat sheet for your space. And if your neighbors or friends have remodeled, now’s the time to casually drop in what worked for them.
Take Baby Steps
Don’t pitch a full-blown remodel out of nowhere. Go back to your prep notes and start small. Maybe it’s just a consultation or a new appliance to get the ball rolling.
Use what you learned from the Kitchen Planner to show what’s worth tackling now—and what can wait until later. That makes the whole thing feel way less overwhelming.
Ready to Start the Conversation?
Remodeling feels like a big deal—because it is. When you’re ready, reach out. We’re here to help you bring your Tallahassee kitchen remodel to life. Planning a kitchen remodel and bringing up the conversation doesn’t have to be, and we just proved it!
